【摘要】:威廉希尔app 整理了每个人都会自己的目标和梦想,那么为什么你总是达不到你想要的目标呢?以下5大原因告诉你答案,请看下文具体内容。
1. You Don’t Have Any Goals
你没有目标
Wayne Gretsky famously said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” The same can be said of goals. You will not attain 100% of the goals you don’t set. Too many people are afraid to “set” their goals. Afraid of failing. Afraid of disappointment. Afraid of what others might think. Well, you definitely won’t complete them if you don’t try. Make a choice and set your goals. Otherwise, you will will end up wherever life takes you.
加拿大冰球明星韦恩·格雷茨基有一句著名的话:“不开枪,你就百分百浪费了子弹。” 在设定目标方面也是同理。如果你不设定目标,你百分之百不会实现目标。很多人不敢设定目标。他们害怕失败,害怕失望,害怕他人的看大。然而,如果你都不去一试的话,你注定无法实现目标。做个选择,设定目标。否则,你只能任由生活主宰你。
2. You Don’t Start
你没开始
OK, so you have a goal. Maybe it’s to lose weight. Or to learn a new skill. To get a new hobby. What have you done about it? Have you started it yet? What are you waiting for? Procrastination is responsible for the demise of many goals.
你有一个目标。比如说是减肥,或是学一项新技能,或培养一个新爱好。 那你做过些什么?你开始行动过吗?你还在等什么?拖延让很多目标落空了。
3. You Aren’t Willing to “Buy” Your Goals
你不愿意“购买”你的目标
Yes. You have to buy your goals. Why? Because every goal has a price. It has a cost. Time. Money. Sweat. Sacrifice. You will have to “pay” for your goals in some manner. If you are not willing to make the investment, then you will not reach your goals. Determine what your goal is going to cost you, and whether or not you are willing to pay the price.
是的,你要购买你的目标!为什么?因为每一个目标都有一个价码。目标是要付出代价的:时间、金钱、汗水、奉献。你必须以某些方式为你的目标“付出”点什么。如果你不愿意做出投资,那么你是无法达成你的目标。确定一下你的目标需要你付出什么代价,再确认一下你是不是愿意付出这个代价。
4. Your Goals Are Unrealistic
你的目标不切实际
Setting goals is important, but ensuring that they are possible is important too. If you set your goals impossibly high, then you are not grounded in reality. Losing 30 lbs. in 30 days is not realistic. Becoming CEO of your company in a year, probably not going to happen. Make sure that your goals are possible and that you set an adequate time frame for success.
设定目标很重要,但保证目标可行同样重要。如果你设定的目标太高而不切实际,那么你无异于在建空中楼阁。在30天里减肥30磅不现实,一年内成为你所在公司的总裁也不太可能发生。确认自己的目标是否可行,同时确保为成功实现目标也预留了充足的时间。
5. You Won’t Stick With It
你没坚持
Over half of goals will be given up within 30 days. You set your goals. You started them. And then… you gave up. You didn’t have the discipline to stay the course. Are you using life’s daily happenings as excuses? I couldn’t go to the gym today because work was too busy. I could not work on my book because I was too tired. Goals are not reached through one momentous effort. Rather, they are made in small steps over time.
超过半数的人在30天内就放弃目标了。你设定了目标。你着手去做了。然后你放弃了。你没有做到自律让自己的目标继续下去。你在用日程琐事作为借口吗?今天我不能去健身了因为工作太忙了。我看不进书了因为我太累了。只求通过一次努力是无法达成目标的。它们是通过一步一步、一次次累积完成的