【摘要】：威廉希尔app 整理了你是不是常常会问自己够优秀、够聪明、够美貌吗?也许你会跟别人比，看别人为什么总是那么的自信，可自己没有自信，几种方法让你自信使你变美丽。
1. Monitor the Negative Voice
留神消极声音
Start by monitoring your negative voice. Notice when you are self-critical, and observe the conversations that go on in your head. When you become aware of the conversations, you can then work on changing them. Your job is to ensure that the voice in your head is positive and supportive at all times and not negative and critical.
首先请留神自己的消极声音吧。看看自己什么时候会自责，并且当时心里是怎么想的。一旦弄明白当时的想法，你便能作出改正了。你要确保自己随时都能保持积极有益的想法，而不再消极自责。
2. Friends & Family
亲朋好友
Ask your family and friends for their honest opinions about what your strengths are. What do they think you are good at? What were you good at when you were a child? If you want an extensive review, write out a checklist, and ask them what they think of you in the listed areas. Ask a couple of people and then you can see if the opinions are similar—just make sure the person you ask is not someone who is jealous of you or would have any reason to hurt or offend you.
请亲朋好友如实评判你的优点：他们认为你擅长什么?小时候你又最擅长什么?你要是想深刻反思，可以列出一张清单，针对列出的条目征询亲友对你的评价。多问几个人你才能找出方向一致的答案——当然，那些嫉妒你或有可能伤害侵犯你的人就不必去问了。
3. No Comparisons
不攀比
Don’t compare yourself with others—it’s a recipe for disaster. You only need to be good enough for you, so it doesn’t matter what you sister, brother, friend or enemy has achieved. Make your own standards and set goals that are right for you.
别将自己跟他人作比较——这只会自取烦恼。你只需做最好的自己，根本不用管你的姐妹兄弟、朋友对手如何成功。你得有自己的准则，只选取适合自己的目标。
4. Journalling
写日志
Take a long look at yourself and write a page describing yourself. Journalling can be a great way to look at yourself objectively. Tell your story like it belongs to someone else. What do you honestly think you are good at? Nobody has to see what you write, just write for you. Write down all of your past achievements—start with last year and write about anything that went well, and then extend the list year by year, making sure you include all of your achievements.
认真反思自己，写下对自己的评价吧。写日志就是客观评价自己的好方法。试着以局外的眼光审视自己：坦诚而言，你觉得自己擅长什么?你的所思所写不为任何外人，而只为你自己。写下过去你所取得的所有成就——从去年开始写起，写下一切顺心的事情，然后逐年追溯，直到写完所有成就为止。
5. Personality Assessment
性格测试
Do a Personality assessment, like the Myers Briggs or DISK personality profile quizzes. These assessments are a great way to understand yourself and to see how you fit in in the world; your personal strengths will become more apparent when you are familiar with your own personality.
做个性格测试吧，比如Myers Briggs或DISK性格小测验。这些测试有助于你了解自己并更好地融入生活。当你了解自己的性格时，个人优点也便更为突显。