【摘要】：威廉希尔app 整理了随着环境和说话对象的不同，你的肢体语言也会产生不同的理解，和任何人在一起你的肢体都会是不同的，要想改变你的肢体，首先要注意自己的坐姿和站姿、手势和腿的动作，以及和别人说话时你都会怎么表现。下面几招能让你和自己的身体更好的协调沟通哦。
1. Don’t cross your arms or legs
不要交叉手臂或腿
You have probably already heard you shouldn’t cross your arms as it might make you seem defensive or guarded. This goes for your legs too. Keep your arms and legs open.
你应该听过不要交叉手臂，这样会让你看起来处于防备状态且具有攻击性。腿最好也不要交叉起来哦，让手臂和腿自然点吧。
2. Have eye contact, but don’t stare
眼神交流很必要，但别盯着别人看
If there are several people you are talking to, give them all some eye contact to create a better connection and see if they are listening. Keeping too much eye-contact might creep people out. Giving no eye-contact might make you seem insecure. If you are not used to keeping eye-contact it might feel a little hard or scary in the beginning but keep working on it and you’ll get used to it.
如果你同时和好几个人说话，不时地给他们一些眼神交流有助于交际，也能知晓他们是否在倾听。然而过多的眼神交流也许会把人吓跑哦。完全不给眼神交流会让别人觉得你这个人躲躲闪闪不可信。如果你觉得眼神交流很困难抑或会害怕，也要克服一下，不久你就会习惯啦。
3. Don’t be afraid to take up some space
多去占用一些空间
Taking up space by for example sitting or standing with your legs apart a bit signals self-confidence and that you are comfortable in your own skin.
比如两腿分开的坐着或站着能增添自信，还能透露你对自己的状态感到很舒服哦。
4. Relax your shoulders
放松肩膀
When you feel tense it’s easily winds up as tension in your shoulders. They might move up and forward a bit. Try to relax. Try to loosen up by shaking the shoulders a bit and move them back slightly.
感到紧张的时候总是不自觉地收紧肩膀，于是肩膀就会向上且向前倾。试着放松，摆动一下肩膀，把肩膀有意识的后倾点吧。
5. Nod when they are talking
倾听时别忘了点头
Nod once in a while to signal that you are listening. But don’t overdo it and peck like Woody Woodpecker.
时不时点头是你在倾听的信号。但千万别过头了，把自己变成成啄木鸟伍迪了哦。
6. Don’t slouch, sit up straight
别耷拉着，坐直了
But in a relaxed way, not in a too tense manner.
但也不用太拘谨哦，放松点就好了。
7. Lean, but not too much
斜靠着，别太过
If you want to show that you are interested in what someone is saying, lean toward the person talking. If you want to show that you’re confident in yourself and relaxed lean back a bit. But don’t lean in too much or you might seem needy and desperate for some approval. Or lean back too much or you might seem arrogant and distant.
如果你想表现对别人说的话感兴趣，就稍微向说话的那个人倾斜一点。如果你想表现的是自信，那就稍微往后仰一点吧。但也别太过头哦，太靠近会让你看起来急于得到别人的认可，往后仰的太过会让你有距离感。
8. Smile and laugh
微笑和大笑
Lighten up, don’t take yourself too seriously. Relax a bit, smile and laugh when someone says something funny. People will be a lot more inclined to listen to you if you seem to be a positive person. But don’t be the first to laugh at your own jokes, it makes you seem nervous and needy. Smile when you are introduced to someone but don’t keep a smile plastered on your face, you’ll seem insincere.
笑起来，别板着个脸啦。放松点，别人说好玩的事情的时候不妨微笑或大笑。如果你是个阳光的人，人们也会更乐意与你交流哦。但自己的笑话，千万别第一个笑，这样只会让你看起来又紧张又忐忑。当朋友把你介绍给新的人认识时，时可以脸上带微笑，但也别一直笑，否则会看起来不真诚。
9. Don’t touch your face
别摸脸
it might make you seem nervous and can be distracting for the listeners or the people in the conversation.
这会让你更紧张，还会分散交谈中听者的注意力。
10. Keep your head up
别低头
Don’t keep your eyes on the ground, it might make you seem insecure and a bit lost. Keep your head up straight and your eyes towards the horizon.
别一直看地上啦，会让你看起来不真诚外加分心哦。把头抬起来，眼神也专注点吧。